A normal Friday

Excerpts from a recent Fri­day at our house, illus­trat­ing life with four boys:

Ok, Daddy, come on and let me spank you. Bend over.”

My word! River, no! You don’t throw cereal on the floor!” (A few sec­onds later) “Tris! Don’t stomp on that cereal!”

Mom, on my birth­day can it be movie day and com­puter day?”

Riv went poopoo in the potty chair? Can I see?”

You two sit down in the mid­dle of the floor, hold hands, and look at each other. Don’t get up ’til I tell you to.”

The first smile

Or at least, this is the first smile from River which I was able to get a snap of. Sleep­ing smiles count, don’t they?

He’s set­tled down into some sem­blance of an evening sched­ule, but it’s not one I par­tic­u­larly am crazy about: River’s usu­ally sleep­ing from right before I get home around 5:30 to about 8 — 8:30. Then he’s awake, eat­ing, and need­ing to be burped till almost mid­night. That means we’re awake until then too, and the sleep depri­va­tion is start­ing to catch up to me. Ari’s hold­ing up well, though.

Introducing River Solas Dickerson

Yes, it has taken us a while to announce his name, but that is because it was a long time in coming.

Ari and I have been search­ing and ask­ing God for the right name for our new baby for almost a week. Finally, last night, the last piece of the puz­zle fell into our laps.

Solas is the Irish word for “light”. Also, though spelled dif­fer­ent, Solace is an Eng­lish word for “com­fort”. Together, the name means “River of light and comfort”.

When we found that word, we both knew that it was right, and the name was com­plete. All the other ideas we pitched out.