A normal Friday

Excerpts from a recent Fri­day at our house, illus­trat­ing life with four boys:

Ok, Daddy, come on and let me spank you. Bend over.”

My word! River, no! You don’t throw cereal on the floor!” (A few sec­onds later) “Tris! Don’t stomp on that cereal!”

Mom, on my birth­day can it be movie day and com­puter day?”

Riv went poopoo in the potty chair? Can I see?”

You two sit down in the mid­dle of the floor, hold hands, and look at each other. Don’t get up ’til I tell you to.”

Last night’s dinner guests

We had a good, busy day yes­ter­day. We had a small party for Morgon’s belated birth­day, and had our neigh­bors, Jerry and Erika’s fam­ily, and Rick and Katie’s fam­ily come over to go trick-or-treating in our neigh­bor­hood with us and hang out afterward.

I had to run to the gro­cery store for some let­tuce for sup­per, and was asked by a cheer­ful home­less lady on my way out if she could wash my van win­dows for some change for some­thing to eat. I was in a hurry, so I gave her a dol­lar and went on.

What we’re leaving for the kids

Ari and I were hav­ing a con­ver­sa­tion a cou­ple days ago about a rel­a­tive that passed away recently and what was being left for the chil­dren in her will. Mor­gon, our 10-year-old, piped up:

Dad, when grandpa dies, is he going to leave you a lot of money?”

Ari and I just laughed. We couldn’t help it—that’s just a humor­ous thought to us. We know that both sets of our par­ents won’t have much to leave, if any­thing, in the way of mate­r­ial wealth. But one thing we already have that is part of the real trea­sure they are leav­ing behind is that that has never even been a con­cern of ours.

Well, she’s willing.

Quote

I wasn’t God’s first choice for what I’ve done for China… I don’t know who it was… It must have been a man… a well-educated man. I don’t know what hap­pened. Per­haps he died. Per­haps he wasn’t will­ing… and God looked down… and saw Gladys Ayl­ward… And God said — “Well, she’s will­ing.“
- Gladys Ayl­ward

A Response to Francis Chan’s “I Gave Up on Unity”

I read this post on Fran­cis Chan’s blog today: http://francisupdates.tumblr.com/post/8762288953/i-gave-up-on-unity

As com­ments are dis­abled on his blog and I have no idea how to get in touch with him, I fig­ured that I might as well throw some thoughts in response up here on the blog and see if they help any­one out.

Fran­cis wrote:

[…] Until this recent study, I hadn’t noticed the deep con­nec­tion between the cross and unity. Our one­ness is far more than a “nice idea” we should pur­sue if we can find the time. It was a moti­va­tion for the cross.”

On the solidity of walls

It’s all River’s fault.

We’ve been in the early stages of potty-training with him, and lately have been try­ing to catch him before he goes in his dia­per, which explains why this morn­ing I was careen­ing through the house to fetch the potty chair before it was too late.

Some­how my lit­tle toe inter­cepted the cor­ner of the wall on my way by.

The wall didn’t budge.

At first I thought that it was just the injured toe­nail caus­ing the pain, but as I grabbed it (yelling), I felt the bones grind­ing together.